My children, I am not a perfect mother. Some days, I’m not even a good-enough mother. I cannot promise you that I won’t lose my temper or get disappointed at times. I cannot promise you that I will have all of the answers, save you from any pain, and agree with your choices. I cannot promise you that I will be walking here on this Earth with you for all of your days. I won’t promise you these things either.
The commitment made by my own mother to me while growing up, and even today, has spilled over into your lives as well. Through her, I witnessed what it was like to put someone else before one’s own needs. Through her, I learned that children should hear that their dreams can come true with hard work and heart. Through her, I learned to not allow one’s circumstances dictate one’s future. Through her, I learned that it is okay to not have all the answers, and that someday the answers might just be found. Through her, I learned to not walk away from commitments and family.
My children, I promise you that my overwhelming love for you will stay with me until my last breath. My protective instincts will linger throughout your growing-up years, and even while you too are feeling the instinct to protect your little ones. I promise you that I will try my very best to take care of myself so that our days will be long together. My desire to put your needs above mine, to sacrifice, to provide, to want more for you, to imagine better for you, to work harder for you, and to be your biggest cheerleader will not fade with time. I will pray for the Lord’s protection over you.
Each day is a gift from the Lord that presents me with the opportunity to steadfastly work on this art that is called motherhood.
My children, I may not be a perfect mother. I may not even be a good-enough mother on some days…but….I’m your mother, and I will not walk away. That is something I can promise.
5 thoughts on “My children, I promise…”
From one mother to another, beautifully said. JW
Thank you so much. Motherhood is quite the humbling experience, but I wouldn’t change it for anything!
This is so beautiful! It’s everything I feel yet I don’t know that I could put it quite as perfectly as this! Melissa
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Kids don’t need perfect parents — I don’t know where you would find them anyway. What they do need is loving parents who are involved in their lives.