Here is a pic of my two cutie-patootie boys. Oh my, how the time goes by. Our ten-year-old is insanely protective and in love with his little brother. In turn, our four-year-old just adores his big Bubby. This right here is what adoption is all about.
They both came to us with similar characteristics in their stories, but completely different set of circumstances. Both have those chocolate eyes that melt your heart, a strong will, a little disenchantment (at times) regarding their sister and curiosity about the world surrounding them.
I could not imagine life without them, and I don’t think they would want to imagine life without each other. Before we decided to take in our little guy, our children asked a ton of questions. “Why does he need to come stay here?” “Will he be able to stay forever?” Questions like these are super normal for children whose parents decide to bring in other children. We answered with age-appropriate honesty, and our kids completely accepted our little guy as he was – as his situation was. They just wanted to love on him.
These boys are six years apart in age and are not related biologically, but let me tell you, there’s a whole lot of love and life when it comes to adoption. There are so many things that we parents can determine our success by, but my hope is that I’m measured by what our children view family and love to be. You don’t have to look the same, share genetics, or be there from the very beginning to know what family is; to love what family is.
Friends, this is what matters.